They may like you or they may hate you but one thing is for sure—they will never be able to ignore you.
Has anyone ever told you that there is something special about you but they were not sure how to describe it? Do you often find people staring at you for no apparent reason?
Do you have the feeling that guys are sometimes too intimidated by you?
If your answer is yes, you should be proud of yourself because you’re one of them. You’re one of those women with a big personality that men find extremely attractive and intimidating at the same time.
A woman with a big personality needs a guy with a strong heart and that is why it is so hard for you to find a partner who will reciprocate your needs. And even when you succeed in it, it turns out that he’s not as strong as you might have thought he’d be.
Here are 5 signs you have a big personality and he’s just too weak to handle it.
1. You’re friendly to everyone (and not just to the people you know)
The biggest indicator of a big personality is your ability to treat everyone with the same respect and love. You don’t have a problem engaging in a conversation with random people you meet.
Not only do you have a big personality, you have a big, strong heart because you care how others will feel around you. You want everyone to feel respected and treated the way they deserve.
That is why men sometimes get jealous for no apparent reason. They are too weak to handle your beautiful heart and your selfless love you’re giving to everyone.
Weak men will want your love only for themselves because they are not brave enough to accept you for who you are.
2. Your energy is magnetic
You brighten up every room you enter without even trying. You can be in your pajamas with greasy hair and you’ll still radiate with that infectious energy that is so addictive.
Your energy is magnetic because you always surround yourself with positive people and you don’t tolerate other people’s bullshit. You will always tell them if they’re wrong and you have no problems fighting for yourself.
Toxic men will be smitten by your behavior when you show them that they cannot play their games with you. A man will turn into a small, weak puppet, not knowing how to behave around you.
3. You know what you want
Another great indicator of a big personality is knowing what you want and fighting for it. If you like a guy, you’re not ashamed to show your feelings and tell him how you feel about him.
You know what you want and you’re not ashamed to fight for it because you know if you don’t, no one else will do it for you. And that is what makes you truly amazing.
Weak guys will be afraid of such women. They are too weak to handle emotions because they need more time to grow up. You’ll recognize this type of guy if you tell him how you feel and he suddenly runs away.
4. You’re not afraid to be who you are
If you have a big personality, you’ll be loved or hated but there’s no gray area here. You’re not afraid to be who you are and you will not change for anyone.
You know you’re not perfect and you’re not even trying to be. You love yourself regardless of what others might think about you.
Weak men would want to change you because they don’t want to accept the real you. They don’t want to make an effort to understand you or appreciate your imperfections.
Strong men will be more than happy to accept your true self and that is why you should never hide it.
5. You have a big heart and he’s just too afraid of loving it
You can’t have a big personality if you don’t have a big heart and vice versa. If you love someone, you will not waste a second showing him.
You are bold enough to make yourself vulnerable in front of anyone, even though you know how it feels to have a broken heart. Weak men will tell you they love you and run away after saying it because they are too weak to handle love.
They haven’t developed the mental capacity to love anyone except themselves. On the contrary, strong men will never have a problem showing you love because they are afraid of losing you.