The planets do not want any of us to be unhappy. But sometimes, our own personality traits lead us into a pit of unhappiness. We do not know what the right way is or we tend to forget ourselves along the road. Either way, we become sad because life doesn’t turn out to be what we thought it would be. However, astrology has come to our help, and now we can understand what kind of unhappiness plagues us, according to our zodiac signs.
Cautionary Note: Depression and being unhappy is not the same. Unhappiness may go away within one or two days but depression continues to stay for a long time. If you are depressed, you might need therapy, medication or both.
Not pushing yourself is the reason why you are so unhappy. You are already in a routine and you think that it is the best thing for you. But inside, you know that it is not working out. If you don’t bring any change in your life, then maybe it will become worse. So, take a step back and move out of your comfort zone. Remember, life begins outside your comfort zone.
You try to control everything, including people, even though, if you think about it, there are certain things in life that you cannot control. By trying to make people think in your way, you are just paving the path towards failure. Plus, you are expending half of your energy and ability in trying to control others and losing most of your time there. So, relax and deal with whatever you have rather than trying to control everything.
There’s nothing wrong about being social, but when you overdo it, that’s when things start to get worse. You already have this fear of missing out and so you go out of your way to attend parties and social events that will just leave you exhausted. Take some time-out, stay at home, and try to relax. It will do you wonders.
Stop trying to be a saint. Being empathetic has gone all wrong for you- you are too much of a giver. But the problem is that when you give so much away, you fail to keep some for yourself and thus you are left with nothing. There’s no doubt that when you are dealing with so many emotions, you will feel overwhelmed. But try to direct some of your empathy towards yourself. Help yourself and after that, you can try to help others. And don’t help everybody – not everyone deserves it.
While you do have your lion pride, somewhere, you are still worried about what others might be thinking about you. When you are continuously worried about other people and what their thoughts are, it just puts immense pressure on you. You have to be honest and genuine but if you are always going about your life trying to impress others, how are you going to be YOU? Accept yourself for who you are and show the world.
You always try to keep everything within yourself. You have always wanted a perfect life and you would like to keep your image as a perfectionist. The result: you don’t express yourself properly. This will keep you under a lot of stress and as long as you keep suppressing your emotions, it will end up making you apathetic. You like to help people and your friends want to help too – so why not accept their help?
The problem with you is taking things personally. Not everything is about you, and sometimes, a little bit of criticism is good for you. You are always trying to change the minds of other people, but that is not going to work. Let go! If you are always thinking about changing another person, then you are putting a lot more pressure on yourself than you are capable of handling. Rather, try to accept yourself and love yourself. It will make you better emotionally and spiritually.
You look at the pessimistic side of life. When there is some kind of sad situation, you tend to enter a pit of unhappiness from which you do not try to get out. Once you are inside that pit, a slight error will drag you down and by the time you know what to do, you have lost control and are falling down a bottomless pit. Fortunately, when you do something, you do it well. Unfortunately, the same is true when it comes to experiencing sadness. So, it is better if you look at the positive side of things. Just let the positivity flow through you and then amp it up by working out and letting the endorphins flow through your body. Then you are in a better shape of facing life.
You are doing what others want you to do. Settling down, looking for a traditional life, and being a traditional adult is not what you are meant to be and you know it. It is the primary source of your unhappiness. Nothing seems to be exciting anymore. You are trapped. Maybe this is the time that you need to go out and experience a change of air. Try to go for a weekend holiday with a friend or partner and find happiness again.
You are not willing to take a risk and that is eating you from the inside. You have the opportunity to do something you want but you know that if you do it, you won’t be getting the returns that fast or that easily. But then, we don’t do everything for money and we do not know what project can turn out to be lucrative in the end. So, it’s best to explore an idea more and then just go for it. After all, you never know what the future holds for you.
You love freedom – you want to be your own boss but right now, you are living your life under some other person. You want to do things your way but you are not being allowed to do so and that is just terrible. You know you are capable of being independent and that is why when someone tries to control you, it just rubs you in the wrong way. It’s time for you to figure out what you want and go for it.
You do certain things just because you want someone else to like you. It makes your life easier though it doesn’t necessarily make you happy. It’s time for you to take a stand and be your own maker. Take the step towards independence, take certain decisions in your life and move forward with it. You’re strong and if you use this strength in the right way, you can achieve greatness in your own terms.
So, all you need is to take one step for your own growth and fulfillment to get rid of unhappiness. So, are you ready to take that step? Understand that you are strong and while it might seem intimidating at first, you can do it if you try. So, don’t be afraid – just go for it!